6. If you were to look back on your high school years, what advice would you give to someone beginning their high school career? (Simmons)
Approaching the end of my junior year, has left me with a lot to think about. I've spent almost 10 years at Woodstock and I have learnt a lot from it. I have had good times, and I've had times when I've gotten in a lot of trouble. It so turns out that the times that I have gotten in trouble, have allowed me to reflect on myself as a person. I have come to realize that Woodstock is the one and only place that will allow you to test yourself, allow you to challenge yourself, and allow you to be your own person. Though a lot of my high school career went by reflecting on improving myself and gaining something out of every experience that I encountered, there were a few circumstances that helped me define these things; trust me, they were not all good. Though most of my advice would be for students starting school at Woodstock, I can generalize a few things and say that, the best advice for a student starting high school would be that:
1. It is not important to care about those who will not care for you.
2. It is important to find something you feel passionate about.
3. Be kind to those who will return the same favor.
These were probably not the things you were expecting. You were probably expecting me to say something like "study hard, play sports, be engaged, become student body president" and blah blah blah. You have your whole life to do all these things. I'm not saying you shouldn't study hard or play sports or gain a leadership position; what I'm saying is that you have your life to work hard, be healthy and become a good leader of society. High school is probably the only time you can find yourself and solidify your background, your personality, and your attitude towards life. These are your crucial "formative years" that will make you a better person.
There will always be people in the world who don't give a damn about you. They will try to deceive you, they will try to hurt you, and they will try to take advantage of you. The only way you can beat these people is by proving to them that you don't care about them, that the things they do don't affect you. You need to learn not to be affected by these things because there are 7 billion people in the world, and there will be someone among these people who will be the right kind of companion for you. So what if you haven't found that person in your high school years; that doesn't mean that you won't find this person. High school is only a small portion of the world and there is so much for you to learn through high school. It's not that one thing that will define your life forever. If it does, then you're just a fool. I was so focused on caring about all my friends never stopping to realize that they stopped caring about me eventually. I was distraught about the fact that I had friends from elementary and middle school who weren't the people they used to be; they weren't the people who genuinely cared anymore. I beat myself up over the fact that it was my fault my friends stopped caring about me and I was the only one left caring about them. But I soon got over it, and now, I have friends who care about me, who tell me things that I may not want to hear but are good for me, and who allow me to be my own person.
I also believe that it is important to find something that one is interested in during one's high school career. These are the four years where an individual has a countless number of opportunities to find what they really care about. When a person goes out in the real world, they will be unable to find an opportunity to do many things they want to do. So I believe that it is important to engage yourself in many things to find out what you like and what you don't like. That way, you will be able to understand yourself better and understand how things one is passionate about could potentially turn into a career. But I want to stress the fact that all these extracurricular activities shouldn't just be to get into a good college. I knew this girl who graduated a couple of years ago from the States, one of my dad's friends, who did things just so that it would be put on her transcript. She was involved in 11 extracurricular activities and tried to run for school president. She didn't win. But that didn't stop her, then she became the NHS head and sought out to attend an Ivy League school. She applied to three Ivy Leagues schools and was rejected by all 3. She then took a gap year and attended some other college. She was so devastated that she couldn't complete college and ended up doing something else. I haven't really heard much about her since.
The last advice I can give you, I'm sure many others have already given you. Be kind to those who have helped you and who would return the favor to you. I spent so much time being angry at my friends for not caring the way I did, that I started being to rude to everyone around me. I didn't want to associate with anyone, I didn't want to talk to anyone, I just wanted to be left alone. It was a very difficult time to me but there were only few people that I could tolerate. I was kind and gentle to them. I told them everything that was going on my life and they just listened. But one friend of mine told me that it was important to be kind to those who have helped you. In my time of disappointment, I saw many who were genuinely concerned, and I just treated them poorly. I didn't know how to behave, and the best way I knew wasn't the right way at all. After that day, I tried to be good to people. I tried to help out those that have helped me as much as possible. I said please and thank you, and I just showed them I really appreciated what they did for me. Now, I can call them my closest friends.
These are not the things that will get you through high school completely on a high note, What I do know is that it will get you through a lot of tough times, and you will look back on your high school career as the most memorable time of your
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